Should we be reporting on sex tapes?

The NRL is dealing with another sex tape scandal after it was confirmed a player from the Parramatta Eels was recorded having sex in a toilet cubicle.

In a statement the club said neither the player nor the woman involved were aware they were being recorded. 

The NRL integrity unit was notified on Sunday night by the video apparently being shopped around to the media.

As usual the rugby league media has picked up the story and run with it. They thankfully haven’t named the player, although it seems both The Mole and someone at Fox Sports originally had the player’s name in their first drafts before removing it after publication.

But should the media be reporting on this incident at all?

So far the facts laid out point to two people engaging in a consensual sexual act in a private toilet cubicle who have been filmed without their knowledge.

If that is the case then why is this being spread?

The person who recorded the footage has effectively broken New South Wales law. And for anyone asking why someone would do such a thing, it’s simple. The media has paid for those videos and images in the past.

Hell, The Daily Telegraph saw it fit to obtain a vantage point and have telescopic photo lenses to photograph the Bulldogs’ private Mad Monday celebrations a few years ago then create a controversy out of it.

In the case of this Parramatta player, what is the actual story here? Why do journalists feel the need to promote this video when it was obtained illegally?

Doing so only creates a market for it.

This isn’t exactly a story that is in the public interest.

The only argument for it is that a journalist believes the player being a public figure means they can report on it.

But even public figures have a right to privacy.

The fact the act was between two consenting adults should be the end of it.

And players have expressed this right to privacy recently, with Steve Matai telling the media to go away, he was just enjoying his retirement.

“Please respect my privacy and the way I want to live my life. I am living happily and enjoying life in our community with my beautiful wife and children.

“Accept this and move on,” Matai wrote after news outlets made up reasons why he hadn’t been seen around Manly since retiring.

Now, onto the NRL integrity unit’s investigation. If what the Eels stated is true then the NRL should not be punishing the player at all.

Otherwise you have an employer interfering with the most private part of an employee’s life. What type of precedent does that set?

If no crime has been committed by the player then the NRL should be staying out of this.

There is a precedent of course, given the leaking of sex tape last year of a Brisbane player with the NRL not punishing him due to him being a victim.

Not only that, but the footage was obtained illegally. What does that say about the NRL if it uses illegally obtained footage to punish a player?

Sure, a toilet cubicle isn’t the greatest place to be having sex. However, the door was closed and the person who filmed it climbed the wall of the cubicle to stick their phone over.

Where does a player’s privacy actually kick in?

Where does the NRL say “that’s your private business, we aren’t interested,”?

This article originally appeared on Rugby League Monthly.

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  • In a way , Hes  probbably lucky his so called mates did film it , otherwise we may have been reading a rape case scandal and the bloke wouid never play again or at very least be tarnished for life . 

     

  • Well down here in bleak city (Melbourne) you can't get the local papers to report anything on NRL, even The Storm get bugger all coverage........except in this morning's Age there was a 1/3 page article on the Eels sex tape saga.    

     

  • Good blog Super, thanks for posting this.

    It's all valid stuff, and if you look back at past incidents the same could be asked. As a couple of examples:

    Todd Carney doing the bubbler.

    Mitch Pearce pretending to shag a dog.

    Both were guilty of stupidity, and nothing else, and as such it really needs to be asked if those things should have ever come to see the light of day. Both players have a somewhat less than ideal record, and both incidents were used to worsen the public perception of them, but neither actually did anything illiegal. Both were in relatively private spaces, just like the current incident.

    These incidents and how they are reported are driven my media demand, nothing more nothing less. The viewing public feed the demand for this stuff to a certain extent.

    • The Carney thing, he was well aware the photo was being taken, he was facing it.

      • The point still stands though, did he do anything illegal? And even if he knew the photo was being taken, did he give premission for it to be distributed?

  • Any one having sex in a toilet cubicle runs the risk of being discovered . That is so with having sex in any public place. To add to the risk public toilets can at times be frequented by perverts and as well now we know people waiting to film at the right opportunity. This time the gamble to have sex was unsuccessful. ....,..... For that reason fair reporting I think. All public figures are open game in public so why should league players be different . 

    • Is a toilet cubicle a public place? Where does the line get drawn on what is private or not?

      • An easy way to phrase it, if you're taking a dump in a closed toilet cubicle, is it legal for someone to film you without your consent?

      • I think you may find the internal space of a public toilet cubicle is private space.

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