This blog has been prompted by the recent exchanges on this site, coupled with some conversations I had with fellow fans at Ringrose Park yesterday. There's been more disharmony between supporters than I can recall in recent memory and I wanted to put some thoughts forward.Most of us agree that there has been a need for cultural change at Parramatta. For too long a mix of poor recruiting or coaching changes, combined with other factors, ensured that fans were consigned to tolerate failure.Therefore, how unexpected would it be for a negative culture to transfer to the fans? How many of us approach a game thinking, "we're going to get flogged in this one"? How many of us mutter the words, "here we go" the moment the opposition score any points? I know I've been guilty of it. I'll put my hand up and say that there've been times in the last 30 years when I've stopped going to games part way through the season because I didn't believe that the players were putting in. My attitude was, if these blokes won't put in on the field, why should I pay my hard earned. In those years I've contacted the club and the coaches to express my concerns. I've felt real anger about many seasons.I completely understand people who have felt this way. It's become part of our culture. I don't believe that our culture has been to accept mediocrity. I believe that the culture of our club, including our fans, has been to give up easily then to look for someone to blame. Sound familiar? I've certainly done it.What that has meant is that some of us, myself included, will begin a season with hope then quickly lose faith in that season. How reflective has that been of what happens on the field?So why is it different for me this season? Why do I see a brighter tomorrow?Please let me preface this by stating that I believe that the culture in the club is changing and I can feel the way that this change is impacting me. It's pretty much the first time I've felt this way in the last 30 years.I've been around this club long enough to get to know many people. There is a similar change in those people. I know a bit about what the club and the coaching staff are trying to achieve and I'm seeing it being put into place.The recruitment is strategic. The coaching is shaping a team dynamic. It embodies bringing specific skills and/or experience and attitude into the club that will develop the younger players and the team culture. This is a long term fix.I want to emphasise that this is my personal experience, my personal belief, and it is not one that is in any way meant to say that I'm right and anyone else who disagrees is wrong. I really do understand and accept that there are differing opinions. This has not been an easy year. At this point I'm normally saying "next year" but in reality doing so out of habit.This year it is different for me. This time I'm actually excited about next year and the years after. Yes I've thrown forward injuries as a reason for unfulfilled potential this year, but I'm not seeing the coach do this nor am I seeing the team give up. So I haven't given up either.I can feel the change at the club and it has impacted me. It's my own cultural change.

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  • Thanks Miatch.
  • Good read as always 60s. You being around the club obviously gives yourself a better perspective of whats happening than myself who lives on the Gold Coast. However I have supported Parra for at least 55 years and have been shattered more often than not over the years. Also being away from the club probably gives fans similar to myself a different perspective than yourself. What has been most disappointing this year is not Watmough but BAs lack of faith in our juniors. Surely Matterson and Goodall could have been given a go, we all know what Kelly and Hoppa bring, but don't know what these 2 with so much potential, give. We have already lost Matterson but if we lose Goodall I will be most disappointed. Please keep up your excellent work.

    • Thanks for the feedback Glenn. Blokes like Forty, Ham and Parrathruandthru who get to most Wenty games can probably give you a better insight into Matterson and Goodall. I've only been able to get to Wenty about 3 times this year, including yesterday. Apart from that I've only seen these blokes train or watched them on TV or web highlights. Matterson, when asked about his departure yesterday, gave nothing away. I'm a big fan of Goodall and will be disappointed if he leaves.
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    • Thanks Doc. As I said in the blog, I do understand how they feel. I'm just of a differing opinion now.
  • The truth to the curse of the Parra fan requires an open mind, it envoles demi gods, gambling and a prodical son. A young man named Peter with the most perpect golden locks made a bet with the football god Steedan, for which he lost. I don't much more but Peter did not pay his debt, He and his followers were cursed by Steedan, 'your success will fade with the loss of your golden locks' and so on time went and as peter's locks slowly disapeared so did all the success his followers once enjoyed.
    • This comment is deserving of your digital majesty. I can just picture your work on his changing locks of the years. Come on Parody. You know you need to do it.
  • Great blog, I don't think your tickling the unicorn in most of us here, I think what you've said will be a fact next year.

    We will be a different team, we have injected a huge amount of leadership, skill and stability into our team. Blokes that know how to follow a game plan, who know how stay calm in high pressure situations and how to perform under them.

    If you are unsure in the direction that the team is taking for next year and scratching your head as to the retention and recruitment that has been done for 2016; i think you get the picture pretty quickly.

    As I've said before i can not wait for the pre season and training reports from you sixties!!!!

    To hear how the team gels together, forms their attacks and band together in defensive drills. How they Form combinations and how Faith grows in one another's ability on the field as they become brothers ready to go to war for one another.

    The anticipation of finally getting to the Auckland 9's and then knowing the season is just a couple of weeks away and then watching a fully fit, heathy and driven 2016 eels outfit take the field ready for battle !!!

    I think this team and the direction they take in 2016 will strengthen and band together each and every eels supporter. We will have another record membership year for 2016. I think around about 28k. This team will resurrect a lot of old eels supporters.
    • Thanks mate. Weve all been burnt over the years. It's understandable that doubts exist when we look at ladder position and results. In this instance, as I stated, my personal stance is that next year we will have a positive season. But just like the team, this self belief and positivity is not an overnight fix for fans. We will go on our own cultural change. Most will demand to see results come sooner rather than later, and rightly so. I say, the sooner is upon us in 2016.
    • I hear you mate, it will take time but with consistent positive performances on field will see culture change happen mid next year. I've got a lot of faith. Our playing group will thrive under the on field leadership that we have recruited. The confidence will be right up. And BA have having that on the field will let him coach the way he wants to coach them.
  • yet again mate, another well thought out blog that, knowing the typing skills, must have had hours with the typing (and the hours of thought and consideration that goes with the typing speed!!).

    All joking aside with ribbing my brother here, it's something that I have been able to feel too, the slow change in culture.

    While I grew up in the 70's, with my earliest memories of Parramatta, being linked to my early school years, being ones of us in grand finals and semi finals, with the more formative years being that of following a team that success was a way of life, my brother's early experiences of Parramatta echo what some of us remember of the early 90's, with the at times embarrassing bottom of the ladder performances.

    I was a season ticket holder during the "Cumberland Oval" years, with our family traveled out to Belmore while the Stadium was being built and then was a season ticket (member) for many years after that.

    When costs for being a season ticket holder blew out and the pain of watching a first grade squad that seemed more concerned with picking up a pay packet than picking up pride in the jumper became too much, I relinquished my ticket in the Thornett Stand.

    However over the last few years, I started to return to watch the matches live, and, while I don't always have the ready funds to be a regular seated member (sometimes the life of a person in the film and tv industry ISN'T as cash filled and glamorous as people may THINK it is!), I am a "non ticketed member" and get to games when the chance arises (huge thanks to those who have me along on a spare ticket when they can by the way, I REALLY appreciate it!!). The one thing that a person can observe, especially when you look at it with the wisdom of hindsight - the feeling is slowly changing around the place.  

    SLOWLY !

    And it's not an easy thing to change when you've been used to watching a team find the most creative ways to turn a winning situation into a losing one (yup, I've been guilty of the "here we go" , "oh no, we're done" sort of lines or even screaming out "for F#@K'S SAKE, THAT'S PATHETIC!" .... guilty as charged!), but to make the cultural changes around the club, WE have to make the changes, just as much as the players and staff are.....

    Yup, me too!

    I mean, if we don't TRY to make real changes, then even after ten wins on the trot, if we go down in game eleven, will that "old culture" just come stomping back if we don't try to change too?  

    Will we find ourselves saying "yeah well, it had to end some time soon, guess the real Parra just finally returned" or will we find ourselves saying "everyone can have an off day or two, but we'll bounce back" ??

    Times are a changing. The culture within the club is changing too.  It's a long journey, but I too can see that some of the fruits are slowly starting to show first blush.

    It's early days still, but I'd like to hope too, that a lot of us can feel that something special is on the verge of happening with and within the club 

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