Hey All,
I know its not the approprite place to post and I am not a big contributor but would just like to say thank you for having me in this group. I have issues and its getting worse with the family. I am so close to saying enough. I am done. So thank you everyone and I WILL ALWAYS LOVE THE EELS
Regards
LEGEND
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Family First mate, always.
Mate, everyone if a big contributor to this site. Some contribute well while others don't, but we all contribute.
It is never time to say enough and think you're done, especially with a drought we all need to experience together.
Also there is always help whenever you need, whether it be here or external, never forget there is always available help. If I can help let me know
Hey legend, you've always been a thoughtful contributor and always good for a chat. Hoping the best for yourself and family mate and hopefully you'll come on and say hi and chat in the future. Keep safe .
May not be a future mate.
You sound like you really need to reach out to a friend . I think anyone on here would be happy to take a DM if you need to chat , I know I would .Families and relationships are hard . I hope you are ok x
Legend, don't really know you that well but you are obviously in a stage of some depression.
Please feel free to contact me on the message service or through a mod. You will be surprised how you maybe able to get a different type of perspective from someone you hardly know.
Don't rule yourself out on here, there may be a few dopey bastards but it is as honest a social media site you will find.....few breathes and give me a call.
Your descretion would always be a priority and nothing will go anywhere you don't want it to.
Legend bro, how are you feeling right now mate? and how long have you been feeling this feeling?
How bad do you feel out of 10 mate?
I remember our chat about your situation a while back, i know youve been under this pressure for many years now, it must be taking its toll.
No matter how bad things are, you musnt give up mate, these times will pass and the most important thing for your kids is that they have a dad, now and in the future when these issues have sorted themselves out, and they will bro.
You are a special and very important person mate, the most important man in the kids lives, and you need to be there for them, they love you more than anything.
They will be at the age soon when they will be young adults, making their own independent decisions and having their own families, and they need you there for that, you are a very important, special and loved person, just remember that bro, dont be too hard on yourself.
When times are the most toughest in life and you feel like letting go, thats the moments when we have to dig in and hang on tight mate, they are the moments that define us.
Hang in there bro, dig the fingers in, dig in, dont forget how special, loved and im portant you are.
And love yourself bro, youre a top man.
RUOK, mate there are old heads on here (pops) have a breather and chat to one of them. Your kids need you to have a future, so they also can have a future. Sometimes just chatting helps clear your vision and thoughts. Hang in mate.
Hey legend,
Please speak to someone close to you or get some professional help the first step is the hardest but worth it.
It has been a very difficult year for so many and Christmas times seem to push things to extremes for some reason. Talk to someone ---it is worth it-It is easy to close all the doors and feel there are no openings--believe me there are. Things can look quite different if you are open to it. Check out some helplines and start by talking things through anonymously to get some balance in your thinking. It will help--I guarantee it will. Time is a big healer.
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